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2015 Military Marriage Retreats

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It’s our turn to serve you.

We want to support you and your marriage at The Cove by providing a FREE retreat for any active-duty service-member (Guard & Reserve too) and their spouse.

You will enjoy the quiet seclusion of our mountain retreat, complete with winding trails, well appointed rooms, and celebrated cuisine.

Most importantly, you will have plenty of time and space to be alone with God.  Click here to download the military resource form.

Following are the 2015 Military Marriage Retreats:

Building a Resilient Marriage in Turbulent Times
with John Cook, February 19-20, 2015

Building a Lifelong Love
with Gary Thomas, May 29-31, 2015

Military Marriage Seminar-TBD
with Gary Chapman, September 4-6, 2015

Please share this information with other individuals who would be blessed by this opportunity.

military handsThe Cove also offers financial resources (program, meals and lodging are covered…travel is your responsibility) for couples or individuals to come to any Cove seminar or Personal Spiritual Retreat throughout the year.  For more information on our financial resources, visit our website here.

Women’s Bible Studies at The Cove

Ladies, it’s time to sign up for the free women’s Bible study at The Cove!

Both Jane and Kendra have been working diligently throughout the year to prepare their lessons and are looking forward to seeing each of you.

Take a look  at their videos below to get an idea of what to expect in January.

Jane Derrick — Is Peace Possible?
Tuesday mornings: January 6 – March 3, 2015
9:45am - 11:45 a.m.
11:45 – 1 p.m. (optional)
Jane’s study will have an optional $10 lunch available, but you must sign up the week prior to each meal by calling 1-800-950-2092.
Note: Class will not meet on February 24th

Click here or call 1-800-950-2092 to register for Jane’s morning Bible study.

Click here if you do not see Jane’s video in your browser.


Kendra Graham — Compelled: Christ’s Relentless Love For You
Tuesday evenings: January 6 – February 17, 2015
6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.

Click here or call 1-800-950-2092 to register for Kendra’s evening Bible study.

Click here if you do not see Kendra’s video in your browser.

Newcomers always welcome!  Bring a friend or two.

Kendra’s Bible Study…Nehemiah 5:14-16


Welcome to Kendra Graham’s online Bible study. This is a place where we can come together and share in our journey towards Scriptural truths and spiritual maturity. We pray this will be a safe, respectful, resourceful place to come and discuss God’s Word…to discover What it says…What it means…and What it means to you!
Kendra Graham NOTES from Nehemiah 5:14-16

In this step you need to list the outstanding facts of the passage. DON’T get caught up in the details, just list the facts. Do not paraphrase. Use the actual words of the passage. This is God’s Word, a lot of times this step seems tedious to some, but I urge you, as we read, and say and write God’s Word, it begins to sink deep into our hearts. If you just pick one fact out of the verse, write it down and meditate on it.

Verse 14: From the day I was appointed governor, for 12 years, neither I nor my kinsman have eaten the governor’s allowance

Verse 15: Former governors laid burdens on the people, even their servants domineered. I did not because of the fear of God.

Verse 16: I applied myself to the work on this wall; we did not buy land, all my servants gathered for work

Look for a lesson to learn from each fact. What are the people doing that they should be doing? What are the people doing that they shouldn’t be doing?
Is there a command to follow? A promise to claim? A warning to heed? An example to follow?

Verse 14: Nehemiah, upset with the nobles for excising an unjust tax on the poor of the city in the middle of the famine shows true leadership. Nehemiah as a leader put forth an example of what it looks like to be a godly leader. Nehemiah had every right to make the people pay for his food and the food of his servants, but seeing the poor state of the people, Nehemiah does not take what is due him, and instead gives and shares what he has. Sometimes, the greatest example of a leader is someone willing to care about his people, understand the hardships they are facing and meet their needs; instead of constantly demanding his/her ego is stroked and that they get their just due all the time. Discernment and compassion are two qualities the leaders were lacking back then, as well as today.

Verse 15: Just because everyone who has gone before you in your position acted a certain way, and just because all those who went before you in your position demanded and deserved certain perks, does not mean that God called you to your position to demand the same things, even if they are due you. A godly leader is a high calling, and God has trusted you with that position, to represent Him, not a company or organization. We need to be careful to remember who we serve and represent….. My mom would always remind me, “Just because someone else does it or did it that way, does not mean God has called you to do the same!” Perhaps you were called by God because you could be trusted to serve Him above all.

Verse 16: Nehemiah did what no other governor did before him, Nehemiah came to work on the wall…. and work he did. His hands were just as dirty, as were his servants. Nehemiah led by example. Nehemiah did not get distracted in the calling to which God had given. Nehemiah did not take advantage of a perk just because it was there and he was expected to. Nehemiah had a higher calling, to serve the Lord God Almighty. Leaders need to show the compassion of Christ. Often, once we “arrive” at our higher position we say, “Whew, glad I don’t have to do that menial work anymore! Someone else can!” Maybe that should not be the attitude at all. Maybe in leadership, we should not forget, there is no work “beneath” us. Let’s not get lazy in our positions of leadership…. let’s get dirty for God!

Take the lessons you learned and put them into the form of a personal question that you would ask your spouse, or a friend or your son or daughter.
As you write the questions, listen for God to communicate to you through His Word.
*Do not rush. Do not write things down just to have something on paper, this step takes more time that you may think. This is where Scripture meditation becomes real, this is where you begin to hear that still small voice speak to you, and place His finger in your life and begin to direct your paths…. this day, and the next, and the next. Do you trust Him enough to put into place that which He is moving you to?

14: Where has God entrusted me to leadership? In the home, church, school, a company, organization, work, a committee, neighborhood watch… etc? How am I showing discernment and compassion? Am I leading so that my voice will drown out the others, or has God entrusted me in this position to listen and care for the concerns of others? How am I showing godly discernment in leadership, no matter how big or how small?

15: How am I representing the character of God in my position of leadership? Has God called me to give up a “right” or “perk” that I justly deserve? Do I lead to stroke my own ego, or am I leading to serve a living and risen Savior? Is it obvious to others that I have a higher calling? If Jesus came to give me a review, how would he rate my godly compassion and discernment? Does it even matter to me what God thinks of how I lead?

16: Have I stopped work because I think it’s beneath me? What if I helped and aided in the labor, not because I had to, but because I could? What example of leadership am I putting forth to those under me? Tyrannical or Compassionate? Do I dare ask those in my home, committee, work, organization, school, prayer group, Bible study group??? If I was led by someone like me would I say it’s reflecting God’s character or the world’s expectation?

Lord, help me lead in the areas You have called me to with grace, compassion and discernment. Strengthen my hands to work, my mouth to encourage and my heart to love those You have entrusted me with.

Homework: Nehemiah 5:17-19

Get stuck? www.annegrahamlotz.com and Anne will walk through the Three Questions with you and help you along!

Transformation of The Cove Wreath

Fall has arrived at The Cove!

The air is becoming cool and crisp and many of the vibrant green leaves on our trees and shrubs are beginning to transform to beautiful bright reds, yellows, purples, and browns.

Another transformation that takes place at The Cove three to four times per year is the changing out of the decorations on the enormous grapevine wreath that hangs above the Training Center lobby fireplace.

Many have asked how we physically change out the wreath  decorations, how long it takes, and where the design inspiration comes from.

We have put together a short video to answer those questions and give you a behind-the-scenes look at how our Summer wreath was transformed into a Fall wreath.

Click here to watch the video if it is not displaying on your screen.

We’d love to hear from you.  What sort of seasonal transformations take place either inside or outside your home?  Leave your comments in the comments section below.

If you would like to attend an event or visit The Cove this Fall, check out our website by clicking here.

What’s Happening at The Cove – November

Coming to the Cove November

Fall  is here and as the leaves begin to change, the magnificent display of God’s beauty is seen in the Blue Ridge Mountains. Come enjoy the coming of the Holiday season with us at The Cove in beautiful Asheville, North Carolina.

Check out our schedule for the month of November below.  Click one that interests you for more details and to register.

Come and Join Us!

November PSR

Come get away on a self-directed opportunity to experience a private spiritual retreat with the focus of growing your relationship with God.

Click on the link below for November dates or call 1-800-950-2092.

November Personal Spiritual Retreats

November Seminars and Concerts

Click on each of the links below for more information and to register.  You may also call 1-800-950-2092.

SOLD OUT – An Evening at The Cove
with Fernando Ortega, November 2, 2014

Glorious Impossibility: The Sermon on the Mount for Those Who Have Crashed and Burned-
 with Tullian Tchividjian, November 3-5, 2014

Pastors’ Institute: Inexhaustible Grace for the Exhausted Pastor-
 with Tullian Tchividjian, November 6, 2014

Remove the Masks: In Our Weaknesses He is Strong-
 with Steve Brown, November 7-9, 2014

Becoming a Person of Spiritual Influence: Bringing Christ to Bear on the Culture of Your Family, Church, Company and Nation-
 with Henry, Richard & Mike Blackaby, November 10-12, 2014

Women’s Day Away-The Nearness of King Jesus: Our Radically Accessible Savior-
 with Lisa Harper, November 13, 2014

The 7 Churches of Revelation-
 with Joe Stowell, November 14-16, 2014

SeniorSalt Impact Hymn Sing-
Ron Whittemore with David Gaines, November 17, 2014

Christian Blogger Retreat-
 with Jon Acuff  & others, November 17-18, 2014

Living Up to Him: Experiencing the Goodness of God Through the Ten Commandments-
 with Don Wilton & Rob Wilton, November 18-20, 2014

Taking God Seriously: Lessons Learned From the Minor Prophets-
 with Stuart & Jill Briscoe, November 21-23, 2014

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Glorious Fall colors surround The Chatlos Memorial Chapel at The Billy Graham Training Center at The Cove in Asheville, NC.

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Cove Bible Verse for Week of September 29th

Here is our staff Scripture memorization for this week.

“I know that You can do everything, and that no purpose of Yours can be withheld from You. And the Lord restored Job’s losses when he prayed for his friends. Indeed the Lord gave Job twice as much as he had before.” ~ Job 42:2, 10

Do you have any verse memorization tips to share?

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